Things that annoy me today

Finally returning back to the blog I started about 7 years ago, only to find that people still irritate the shit out of me with their selfishness, ignorance, immaturity, narcissism, and  lack of concern for my feelings.  I'm human, so I go through things just like everyone else but others fail to realize it or fail to acknowledge it and show that they sincerely give a damn for a change and put their own continuous bullshit aside for the sake of helping me get through my bullshit as I do for many of them all the damn time.  I need to vent and talk and get things off my chest and express how I feel be it I'm sad, angry, hurt, depressed, curious, inspired, happy, etc.  This will be my way of doing so.  It's just a damn shame that after 7 years of knowing I needed to do this because I had this same issue before back then, that it still persists to be an issue today.  So this is definitely one of the things that annoys me today.

Other things that annoy me today:

1) A friend who doesn't know who and what the hell she wants in her love life and always wants to talk about her love life all the time (mostly ignores mines no matter how many times I mention it).  Worst of all she wants to text about most of it as if we're in high school!  We're grown women and live in the same area.  Why are we texting more about her love life than hanging out to talk about it in person?  Especially if she mentions that a guy she has known and spent time with for less than a few months have asked her to marry her after sex one time??? You don't text your good friend about that type of shit.  You call them up and ask them to meet up with you like the girls did on Sex & The City and Girlfriends and fucking talking about it in person! Don't expect me to text you back and forth on such a serious issue and we both live in the same area and have plenty of enough free time to meet up and talk about it! 

What the hell do I look like texting back and forth like a damn teen in high school talking about (Me: "OMG he asked you to what??? Marry him?... (Friend: Yeah girl! I was shocked. Me: What did you say??!...Us: blah blah blah back and forth"  WTF Too old for that shit and my hand is sore already from everyone wanting to text me a million times back and forth already about their love life and other shit.  I don't mind texting with out of state friends while they're at work.  But I'm not gonna extend any further my attention and time to texting with a friend who is not at work and has the ability to easily call me up or make free time to meet up and talk like real adults and hang out while doing so, so I can tune out a little while their blabbing on and on about themselves while we window shop and eat lunch at the mall. LoL  I pay good attention to people when they talk, but some friends are repetitive when they talk because they are narcissist and obsessed with their situations...so that's when I tune out before commenting again with the same feedback I gave them 5-10 mins before for the 2nd and 3rd time!  Goodness grief what is wrong with people?

2) Another friend (she lives in Philly) has also been bombarding me about her love life stuff.  However, she at least had the awareness and decency (perhaps because she too was a psychology major) to at some point realize that she sometimes can ramble a bit much about her issues and asked me how had I been doing.  Today though what annoyed me with her is what I keep seeing from her more and more, is that she like many of us women (esp as we get older) are getting desperate for a man to settle down with, to the point of over looking good common sense signs that a man isn't interested.  She'll say something like "Oh he said he doesn't mind hanging out again, but he doesn't want to date me. So maybe he was nervous."  WTF?? No hun!  How about he isn't interested and he clearly told you that.  I told her this and she still was looking for exceptions!

 I can't say that I have never been guilty of wanting someone so bad to the point of making ridiculous exceptions for them, because women do this far more than we should and even men do as well...just not as much as us women do.  But I spare those moments from my friends and keep those embarrassing low point moments to myself out of a sense of pride for myself.  Even though I know I have been guilty once too.  But to share it so often with your friends just makes you look hopeless after a while, and I really wonder what's going on in her head.  I try not to judge and I try to help her as a good friend.  But I need to vent this because I'm annoyed and human.  It's ok ladies to share details about your love life with your friends and seek 2nd and maybe even 3rd opinions about things, but spare your friends the hassle of becoming over whelmed with your repetitive issues and mistakes...esp for long periods of time.  Give us a damn break and gap it out sometimes.  Goodness grief! Annoyed!